COUSINS WED
 (image adapted from theknot website)
  


There are multiple family relative marriages among our
"Solomon Cousins". Sets of siblings, first and second cousins, and even an uncle and a niece have married one another! This poses a challenge in understanding precisely how we are related to one another. 
 

   In some instances we are doubly related to one another such as siblings (S) who are also second cousins (2C).


And because of the significant age difference between the eldest and youngest of Shlomo and Chana (Posner) Solomon's eight children
(some 22 years),
their descendants of similar age and affinity
 with one another may find themselves on quite different
 generational branches of the family tree.
  
  
  

 

  
    



What follows does not at all claim to be complete and we invite submissions, corrections and clarifications!
  
Here are the family surnames where we've learned there are "cross-over" marriages

Atkins; Kokotow; Lipton(Lifshitz); Rogow; Solomon(Shuster)

[Details Below]

Are there others?

Please be in touch with us through the "Contact Us" section of this website.

 
  


KISSIN' COUSINS


    In different generations there have been a number of relatives within the extended
Solomon Family who have married one another.
Consequently there are several family branches who are related to one another on more than one level simultaneously!


           

www.cousincouples.com

The above site highlights famous people, including Albert  Einstein, who married their first cousins. Did you know that Charles Darwin married his first cousin
Emma Wedgwood? 
They had 10 children, all healthy, some brilliant.

          It has been estimated that 20 percent of all couples worldwide are first cousins. It is also estimated that 80 percent of all marriages historically have been between first cousins!

Interesting Cousin Facts:

      In some cultures, the term cousin and mate are synonymous. 

        No European country prohibits marriage between first cousins. 
  It is also legal throughout Canada and Mexico
to marry your cousin. 
        The USA is the only western country with
                   cousin marriage restrictions.
        

  
The first Prime Minister of Canada, Sir John A. MacDonald
married his first cousin.

 President Franklin
D. Roosevelt the longest serving US president in history,
married his cousin  
    (not a first cousin, however they shared the same last name). 

    God commanded many cousins to marry, including 
Zelophehad's 
five daughters. 
       The Patriarch Jacob married both Rachel and Leah 
who were his first cousins. 
      And his father Isaac and mother Rebekah were first cousins       
                             once removed. (1C1R)                                 

    Chapter 18 of the Book of Leviticus lists all forbidden sexual relationships. 
     
         Cousin relationships are not included.        

                                                                                 


Summary of "Cross-over" Marriages 
  in the extended Family 
Solomon - Atkins - Rogow

 And, please let us know whether there are 
others to be added to this list / chart!

Please take note:
The spouses of certain descendants may be named here only to clarify the link or "cross-over" in relative intermarriages.
 This is not meant to represent a completed family tree.
The letter "m" abbreviates "marriage" and "c" abbreviates
"circa" or "approximately".
(**)
indicates that the individual is additionally linked to interfamilial marriages.

Shlomo & Chana (Posner) Solomon:
our common ancestors 
 
  Solomon Cousins Family Reunion

There was a 21/22 year age difference between the eldest and the youngest of their 8 children who were:
Chaisora (Sarah)Solomon (**) m. Hershel Leib Atkins (**);   
Joe Solomon m. Rachel (Rogow?) (Grieben?);
Nathan Solomon m. Katie Grieben;
Becky Solomon m. Sam Salkovitch;
Harry Solomon (**) m. Dora Rogow (**);
Mary Solomon (**) m. Benny Rogow (**);
Bertha Solomon m. Joe Persky;
Chava(Eva)Solomon (**) m. Harry(Lifshitz)Lipton (**)

(It is their descendants who comprise the "Solomon Cousins" who have convened the Family Reunion in Toronto on October 9, 2005.)

"Cross-Over Marriages"
I
Chaisora(Sarah)Solomon MARRIED Hershel Leib (Henry)Atkins                         (**)   c.1895                              (**)


His parents were Meier-Raphael & Boonye Raisel Atkins.
(He had 12 (!) children who survived into adulthood, his
second wife was It'ka)

Her parents were Shlomo & Chana (Posner) Solomon.
(They had 8 children. See above.)
    
Chaisora (Solomon) & Hershel Leib Atkins had 7 children:

Benny
Atkins m. Ida (Goldberg); Joe Atkins m.Chaika;
Frances Atkins m. Kay Kadish; Abe (Al) Atkins m. Alice;
Adele Atkins  m. Bill Brown;

Harry Atkins m. Faye;
Lillian Atkins (**) m. Albert Kokotow (**)

II
Sara Etta (Sarita)
Atkins MARRIED Itzik (Isaac)
Rogow
                      (**)         c.?                      (**)

      His parents were Alex  &  ? Rogavoy (later-Rogow) 
     (They had 13 children, only 3 brothers survived: 
      Itzik(Isaac), Mendel and Shmuel Rogow).
  (**)

Her parents were Meier-Raphael & Boonye-Raisel Atkins.
(See above. He had 12 children with 2 wives.)

Sara Etta (Sarita) Atkins and
Hershel Leib (Henry) Atkins 
 were sister and brother. They are 2 of the children of
 Meier-Raphael and Boonye-Raisel Atkins. He had
12 children with 2 wives. (See I, above)


Sara Etta (Sarita) Atkins & Itzik Rogow had 6 children 

     Benny Rogow
(**) m. Mary Solomon (**)              
Dora Rogow (**) m. Harry Solomon (**) 
       Alex Rogow m. ?
Max Rogow m.
Martha (?);
             Raizel Rogow (**) m. Shmuel Rogow (**)    
                  (her paternal uncle!) 
  Esther Rogow m.
Ben Hoffman
      
      III
       Mary Solomon
MARRIED Benjamin
Rogow
              (**)         c. 1908               (**)      

His parents were Itzik
(Isaac) & Sara Etta(Sarita Atkins) Rogow
(They had 6 children. See II above).

     Her
parents were Shlomo & Chana (Posner) Solomon.
(They had 8 children. See I
above.)

Benny's sister Dora married his wife Mary's brother,
  Harry Solomon, and his sister Raizel, married their
paternal uncle, Shmuel Rogow!

  
Mary (Solomon) & Benny Rogow had 8 children:

      Joe Rogow m. Adele Goldman
;
Alex (Rogow) Roger m.
Marjorie Kasler;
 Rose Rogow m. Herb Schacher;
Adeline Rogow m. Meyer Levine;
Sam Rogow (killed in WW II); Esther Rogow m. Phil Moscoe;
 Kay Rogow m. Sam Davis;
Ralph (Rogow) Roger m. Beverley Ingram.

    
IV
 Harry Solomon  MARRIED  Dora Rogow

              (**)     c.1907?          (**) 
    
 
         These siblings share the same sets of parents and in-laws.
  See III above. 

     Harry's sister Mary was also his sister-in-law, and Dora's brother Benny, was also her
brother-in-law.  It is their respective children who are
  "cousins german"
or double first cousins and who share
the same collateral and linear relatives.


       Harry Solomon
& Dora Rogow had 8 children:

Alex Solomon m. Gertie Shapiro;
Joe
Solomon m. Celia Adams;
 Meyer (Mike) Solomon (**) m. Sarah Grafstein;
 Abraham (Abie) Solomon m. Muriel Davis;
Sammy Solomon (accidental death at age 15)
Max Solomon m. Lillian Kopstick;
Ida (Adeline) Solomon m. Abe Wagman;
 Rose (Rosie) Solomon m. Morris Freedman

  V    
 Eva
(Chava)Solomon MARRIED Harry(Arye/Aron)Lifshitz(Lipton) 
   (**)                 c. 1916               (**)

Eva Solomon & Harry Lipton had 3 children
 
Sam Lipton m. Shirley Golosky 
Rivy (Reva) Lipton m. Murray Perelman
Marvin Lipton (1st m. Rhoda Goodman, div.)
m. Carole Robertson

      

Harry Lipton's trade as a tailor spanned more than 50 years.  In his latter years  this ability was still acknowleged.
Harry Lipton's trade as a tailor spanned more than 50 years. In his latter years this ability was still acknowleged. As a retiree, in 1967 his needlework garnered a 2nd prize and an Honourable Mention at the Canadian National Exhibition! Go Zaida!

       Eva Solomon and Harry Lifshitz (Lipton)
    were first cousins and their marriage was arranged by their parents

T
his is the story.

   Eva's older sister Bertha was pregnant with her first child 
when Bertha's husband Sam
 
developed a severe toothache 
and went to a dentist 
to have the tooth extracted. 
Soon after the procedure 
he developed a raging infection 
(he had haemophilia)
   and died just a short few days later. 
     Bertha was now a young widow, 
and was pregnant 
      and her family was concerned 
        about how she would be able to manage. 

Her father, Shlomo Solomon (whose surname was actually Shuster) had one brother, Israel Shuster,
and two sisters, Freda and Sarah.
    (Israel and Freda had settled in Toronto.)
     Freda was married to Velvel Borovoy 
 and they had 8 children.
     (One of her grandsons is lawyer Alan Borovoy.)  

Shlomo's sister Sarah had remained in 
Mogilev, Belarus, and was married
to Moishe Lifshitz.
  They had 8 or 9 children, one of whom was Arye (Harry) Lifshitz (Lipton). This was the era during WW I and just before the Russian Revolution. Economic times were tough and Harry 
was facing forced conscription into the Russian Army. 

He was a quiet young man,
colour-blind, 
with a gentle personality. His parents were
     very worried about his future. So it was decided that
he would go to his uncle, 
   Shlomo Solomon in Toronto.
 There the family would help him
    to find work as a schneider (a tailor),
     and assuming that he and Bertha did not find
     anything seriously objectionable about one another,
      they would be married, and Bertha's unborn child
   would have a father. 

 It took several months to arrange Harry's exit logistics 
and to underwrite his travel, and additional time
 (traveling on a very limited budget)
    to journey through Europe, to England and then to Canada. 
Before Harry arrived, an engaging young man
(also seeking to escape from the Russian army)
whose name was Joe Persky
presented himself in Toronto. He had been advised
to go and see Shlomo Solomon.
Joe arranged his room and lodging in the establishment run by
Shlomo's daughter, Chaisora (Sarah) and her husband
    Hershel Leib (Henry) Atkins.  

And who was there helping their sister Chaisora
with the endless daily chores running a household 
which included seven children
  as well as boarders?
       Why the youngest sisters of course, Bertha and Eva
    And Joe Persky was exciting, he was fun, 
he was full of life. Bertha fell in love with him. 
And so did Eva.

    But in any generation finding the right marriage partner 
is not an easy task,
      and before long it became clear that
Joe was smitten with sister
   Becky (Solomon) Salkovitch
(who was married (!) to Sam Salkovitch 
and therefore officially off limits).

So now here's a tangle that's sixfold. 

         Bertha (recently widowed, pregnant with her 
      deceased husband's child) has fallen in love with Joe, 
   and so has her youngest sister Eva.
And Joe's in love with Becky,
      who's already married to Sam!     
    Then who should arrive but Harry
engagement token in hand, expecting to marry Bertha! 
  But Bertha's going to have a baby 
 and needs to be settled quickly,
and she's in love with Joe. 
(And Becky's already married.)  

So in short order Zaida Shlomo and 
Bubbie Chana Solomon 
set about marrying Bertha off to Joe Persky, 
 (and when the baby's born he's given 
the name Sam Persky
and the couple move to Chicago.
 
    And Zaida Shlomo and Bubbie Chana advise 
their youngest daughter Eva to marry 
        her cousin Harry, and they tell her that they believe 
that he's a hard worker
     and that he will be good to her.  

       And Harry presented a few arguments of his own. 
    He knew that as the youngest sister,
   the baby of the family, Eva had spent an
     inordinate amount of her time assisting her sisters,
 helping to care for their many babies, washing diapers,
     cooking, babysitting etc. 

 He accompanied his proposal to her with the offer
that she could be her own boss. 
 He suggested to her that after marrying him, 
   she wouldn't have to take orders from anybody. 
She believed him. 

   They were married on December 24, 1916.     





 
  



And here is retiree Harry Lipton (no doubt pleased to have been asked), an elegant model for men's fashion. He did know
And here is retiree Harry Lipton (no doubt pleased to have been asked), an elegant model for men's fashion. He did know how to wear a jacket, don't you agree?


 More cousin cross-overs!

 Chaisora (Sarah) Solomon Atkins
and 
 Hershel Leib (Henry) Atkins'
youngest daughter Lillian Atkins
married Albert Kokotow.

A photograph (taken in 1942)
of Lillian and two of her children,
Marian and Louise,
may be seen on the Photo Album 
page of this website.
 
Lillian's niece, Rita Atkins

(the eldest of the six daughters of her brother
Benny Atkins and his wife, Ida) married 
Lillian's husband Albert's nephew,
Irving Kokotow.

Irving and Rita (Atkins) Kokotow's daughter Maureen Kokotow
married her cousin, Joe Solomon, son of
Mike (Meyer) and Sara Solomon, grandson of
Harry and Dora (Rogow) Solomon.


Maureen's great-grandmother,
Chaisora (Solomon) Atkins
and Joe's grandfather, Harry Solomon 
were sister and brother! 

What is the degree of
cousin relationship
between
Maureen Kokotow and Joe Solomon?

For those of you who like
to use the cousin chart,
(see the Cousins Connect Page)
 Maureen's husband Joe Solomon
and her mother,
Rita Atkins Kokotow 
  are 2nd cousins(2C).
                                     
Their children are
3rd cousins (3C) to her 
and 2nd cousins twice removed
(2C2R) to him.

AND another granddaughter of
 Chaisora (Sarah) Solomon Atkins
and 
 Hershel Leib (Henry) Atkins married her cousin.
Who is it?

Maureen (Kokotow) Solomon's aunt, Muriel Atkins,
(one of her mother's sisters)
ALSO  married HER cousin. Here's how:

Muriel Atkins' grandfather Hershel Leib Atkins
was one of 12 children!

(As we have seen, one of his sisters, Sarita Atkins, married Itzak Rogow and two of the Rogow children, Benny and Dora, married
the Solomon siblings Mary and Harry.)

Another one of Hershel Leib Atkins' sisters
was Yedasha Atkins who married Israel Minster.

Their daughter Faye Minster married Ben Schwartz.

Faye and Ben Schwartz had a son, Arthur Schwartz.
Arthur Schwartz is Muriel's husband.

Arthur's grandmother,Yedasha (Atkins) Minster and Muriel's grandfather, Hershel Leib Atkins
were sister and brother. 
Arthur and Muriel (Atkins) Schwartz are second cousins. (2C)
 
 





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